Self-forgiveness should never be perceived as a sign of weakness, but rather as an emblem of strength. It involves the ability to acknowledge our shortcomings, accept them, and learn from them. In this process, we learn to distinguish between resignation and tolerance, cultivate kindness towards ourselves, and cherish moments of genuine significance.
The Dichotomy of Resignation versus Tolerance: Understanding the Difference
What might occur if we extend the gift of self-forgiveness to ourselves?
I forgive myself for repeatedly placing myself second, for allowing my essence to be shattered to fill others’ emptiness, and for neglecting moments that should have been solely mine.
I forgive myself…
For ignoring my warnings and recurrently stumbling into the same pitfalls,
For considering my well-being as an afterthought rather than a crucial priority,
For those instances when my words surpassed their necessity,
For those moments when I held my tongue when I should have voiced my thoughts,
For conflating resignation with patience,
For investing more in others than in myself, particularly in those who might not value my efforts,
For those times when I have deluded myself,
For not recognizing myself more frequently in the mirror’s reflection,
For failing to show me the kindness I duly deserve,
For lacking the patience and persistence I ought to have towards myself,
For being overly harsh on myself,
For not conforming to predefined molds,
For denying myself certain experiences,
For not fully savoring other experiences,
For not fully appreciating the golden moments until they have passed.
In a world that neither champions nor persecutes us, we must band together. The world simply exists as it is. People, with their light and shadows, are just that – people. At times, we find ourselves on the wrong path, alongside someone who heedlessly rushes forward, running us down without a second thought.
